Toddler Development

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Summary

These milestone charts can help you gauge your toddler’s development.

Every toddler is different but most do similar things by certain ages. Talk with your pediatrician if you're concerned that your child is very late in reaching a milestone. The following milestone charts can help you gauge your toddler’s development. 

 At 18 months, my toddler: Yes or No
 Plays pretend, such as feeding a doll  
 Has temper tantrums  
 Says several single words  
 Follows a simple command, such as “sit down”  
 Walks alone  
 Drinks with a cup  
 Eats with a spoon  

  

 At 2 years,  my toddler:  Yes or No
 Becomes defiant at times  
 Knows names of familiar people and body parts  
 Says sentences of two to four words  
 Plays make-believe games  
 Stacks two to four blocks  
 Completes sentences or rhymes in picture books  
 Kicks a ball  
 Is beginning to run  
 Climbs onto and down from furniture without help  
 Walks up and down stairs holding on  
 Throws a ball overhand  
 Makes or copies straight lines and circles  

  

 At 3 years,  my toddler:  Yes or No
 Shows affection and concern for friends without prompting  
 Takes turns in games  
 Understands the idea of “mine” and “his” or “hers”  
 Dresses and undresses herself  
 Follows instructions with two or three steps  
 Understands words like “in,” “on,” and “under”  
 Says his first name, age, and sex  
 Says words like “I,” “me,” “we,” “you,” and some plurals (cars, dogs, cats)  
 Talks well enough for strangers to understand her most of the time  
 Carries on aconversation using two to three sentences  
 Works toys with buttons, levers, and moving parts  
 Plays make-believe with dolls, animals, and people  
 Does puzzles with three or four pieces  
 Turns book pages one at a time  
 Builds towers of more than six blocks  
 Screws and unscrews jar lids or turns door handles  
 Pedals a tricycle  
 Walks up and down stairs, one foot on each step  

Tips for parents

Help your child learn by reading, playing, exploring, and talking together.

  • Set aside time each day to talk and play.
  • Read books together.
  • Point to pictures in books and ask her to name the objects. Do the same with body parts and objects around you.
  • Finish words that your toddler starts. For example, when he says, “baba,” say “Yes, that’s your bottle.”
  • Play matching games like shape sorting and simple puzzles.
  • Encourage your child's growing independence by letting him help with dressing himself and feeding himself.
  • Create predictable routines so she will know what to expect each day. For example, follow the same steps for bedtime (bath, brush teeth, read book, lights out). 
By Sharron Luttrell, Military OneSource. Used with permission.
Source: "Developmental Milestones," Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/actearly/milestones/; "Essentials for Parenting Toddlers and Preschoolers," Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, www.cdc.gov/parents/essentials/consequences/index.html; "Toddler," Healthy Children, www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/Pages/default.aspx

Summary

These milestone charts can help you gauge your toddler’s development.

Every toddler is different but most do similar things by certain ages. Talk with your pediatrician if you're concerned that your child is very late in reaching a milestone. The following milestone charts can help you gauge your toddler’s development. 

 At 18 months, my toddler: Yes or No
 Plays pretend, such as feeding a doll  
 Has temper tantrums  
 Says several single words  
 Follows a simple command, such as “sit down”  
 Walks alone  
 Drinks with a cup  
 Eats with a spoon  

  

 At 2 years,  my toddler:  Yes or No
 Becomes defiant at times  
 Knows names of familiar people and body parts  
 Says sentences of two to four words  
 Plays make-believe games  
 Stacks two to four blocks  
 Completes sentences or rhymes in picture books  
 Kicks a ball  
 Is beginning to run  
 Climbs onto and down from furniture without help  
 Walks up and down stairs holding on  
 Throws a ball overhand  
 Makes or copies straight lines and circles  

  

 At 3 years,  my toddler:  Yes or No
 Shows affection and concern for friends without prompting  
 Takes turns in games  
 Understands the idea of “mine” and “his” or “hers”  
 Dresses and undresses herself  
 Follows instructions with two or three steps  
 Understands words like “in,” “on,” and “under”  
 Says his first name, age, and sex  
 Says words like “I,” “me,” “we,” “you,” and some plurals (cars, dogs, cats)  
 Talks well enough for strangers to understand her most of the time  
 Carries on aconversation using two to three sentences  
 Works toys with buttons, levers, and moving parts  
 Plays make-believe with dolls, animals, and people  
 Does puzzles with three or four pieces  
 Turns book pages one at a time  
 Builds towers of more than six blocks  
 Screws and unscrews jar lids or turns door handles  
 Pedals a tricycle  
 Walks up and down stairs, one foot on each step  

Tips for parents

Help your child learn by reading, playing, exploring, and talking together.

  • Set aside time each day to talk and play.
  • Read books together.
  • Point to pictures in books and ask her to name the objects. Do the same with body parts and objects around you.
  • Finish words that your toddler starts. For example, when he says, “baba,” say “Yes, that’s your bottle.”
  • Play matching games like shape sorting and simple puzzles.
  • Encourage your child's growing independence by letting him help with dressing himself and feeding himself.
  • Create predictable routines so she will know what to expect each day. For example, follow the same steps for bedtime (bath, brush teeth, read book, lights out). 
By Sharron Luttrell, Military OneSource. Used with permission.
Source: "Developmental Milestones," Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/actearly/milestones/; "Essentials for Parenting Toddlers and Preschoolers," Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, www.cdc.gov/parents/essentials/consequences/index.html; "Toddler," Healthy Children, www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/Pages/default.aspx

Summary

These milestone charts can help you gauge your toddler’s development.

Every toddler is different but most do similar things by certain ages. Talk with your pediatrician if you're concerned that your child is very late in reaching a milestone. The following milestone charts can help you gauge your toddler’s development. 

 At 18 months, my toddler: Yes or No
 Plays pretend, such as feeding a doll  
 Has temper tantrums  
 Says several single words  
 Follows a simple command, such as “sit down”  
 Walks alone  
 Drinks with a cup  
 Eats with a spoon  

  

 At 2 years,  my toddler:  Yes or No
 Becomes defiant at times  
 Knows names of familiar people and body parts  
 Says sentences of two to four words  
 Plays make-believe games  
 Stacks two to four blocks  
 Completes sentences or rhymes in picture books  
 Kicks a ball  
 Is beginning to run  
 Climbs onto and down from furniture without help  
 Walks up and down stairs holding on  
 Throws a ball overhand  
 Makes or copies straight lines and circles  

  

 At 3 years,  my toddler:  Yes or No
 Shows affection and concern for friends without prompting  
 Takes turns in games  
 Understands the idea of “mine” and “his” or “hers”  
 Dresses and undresses herself  
 Follows instructions with two or three steps  
 Understands words like “in,” “on,” and “under”  
 Says his first name, age, and sex  
 Says words like “I,” “me,” “we,” “you,” and some plurals (cars, dogs, cats)  
 Talks well enough for strangers to understand her most of the time  
 Carries on aconversation using two to three sentences  
 Works toys with buttons, levers, and moving parts  
 Plays make-believe with dolls, animals, and people  
 Does puzzles with three or four pieces  
 Turns book pages one at a time  
 Builds towers of more than six blocks  
 Screws and unscrews jar lids or turns door handles  
 Pedals a tricycle  
 Walks up and down stairs, one foot on each step  

Tips for parents

Help your child learn by reading, playing, exploring, and talking together.

  • Set aside time each day to talk and play.
  • Read books together.
  • Point to pictures in books and ask her to name the objects. Do the same with body parts and objects around you.
  • Finish words that your toddler starts. For example, when he says, “baba,” say “Yes, that’s your bottle.”
  • Play matching games like shape sorting and simple puzzles.
  • Encourage your child's growing independence by letting him help with dressing himself and feeding himself.
  • Create predictable routines so she will know what to expect each day. For example, follow the same steps for bedtime (bath, brush teeth, read book, lights out). 
By Sharron Luttrell, Military OneSource. Used with permission.
Source: "Developmental Milestones," Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/actearly/milestones/; "Essentials for Parenting Toddlers and Preschoolers," Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, www.cdc.gov/parents/essentials/consequences/index.html; "Toddler," Healthy Children, www.healthychildren.org/English/ages-stages/toddler/Pages/default.aspx

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